February 2012
1 post
When a traffic jam halts the flow of my day, it’s when I realise “the plan” ends up being an idea instead of a reality. Then I refuse to be the reason it all “fell apart” instead, I am a contently peaceful observer in the unexpected advances. Advances = Forward Motion = Growth (?) {Just a random thought}
January 2012
2 posts
December 2011
3 posts
1 tag
November 2011
1 post
October 2011
5 posts
Bencoolen Street, October 6.
And I realised I don’t like being here. Neither does my ex boy. We’re leaving Singapore in 12 hours. Bye.
September 2011
6 posts
1 tag
August 2011
7 posts
Let the guards down.
Fear of failure. Fear of abandonment. Fear of jealousy. Fear of hurting one another. Fear of pain. Fear of the uncertainty, the unknown. Fear of regret. Fear of the bad that could rise from potential good. Fear one day she wouldn’t take him back…. or worse: that he’d even if she’d hurt him.
Fear one day she’ll be defenseless against his charm. That one day she will...
6 tags
What we have here is a dreamer. Somebody out there out of touch with reality....
– The Virgin Suicides
July 2011
3 posts
The pessimist complain about the wind; The optimist expects it to change; The...
– William Ward
June 2011
5 posts
Boyfriend Resources Management.
Friend: Been single for 4 years, I'm tired of playing this recruitment and selection thingy.. I want a boyfriend.
Me: Don't be upset.. Women are naturally more selective when it comes to men, where as men aren't. That's just the science of us. Don't give up, keep recruiting, selecting, and rejecting until you find the right one someday.
Friend: Someday is just a day that will never happen.
Me: Are you quoting Tom Cruise's line?
Friend: Not really. I just want a boyfriend.
Lies.
Lie was the new language of a new era. We comfort ourselves by telling ourselves that we do it to protect other’s feelings. We even lie to ourselves. But it is for selfish reasons we bend the truth. We weaving it around until it’s so tightly spun we can’t tell where it started.
You knwo, it’s crime to be selfsih. So instead of excepting this, we twist our needs and...
1 tag
May 2011
3 posts
3 tags
2 tags
April 2011
2 posts
Answers for a common dating question in this...
Friend 1: Why he suddenly stopped e-mailing me?
Me: He? Who?
Friend 1: My American-online-dating-friend.
Me: Oh.. Could be for so many reasons, like.. he could've gotten with his ex or found his real-life girlfriend.. his cellphone got stollen.. but maybe he's just busy..
Friend 2: Maybe he got thrown in jail.. talkin' about possibilities..
Friend 3: Just wait till next year. He'll email you and apologize he had gotten another girl pregnant, married her, and divorced.
Let Bygones be Bygones
Viwie: Don't do anal if you have more than average size of.. you know..
Abhi: As for now I'm not interested doing that.
Me: So the girl must have above an average size of a**hole too?
Abhi: If she has above an avarage size a**hole I'm running away!
Me: I'm feeling retarded..
March 2011
3 posts
Apart from love,
notrendikagh:
there is another great gift we have, and that is the ability to learn from the past.
And you’ll love again.
Don’t stay because you think “It will get better”....
– Anonymous
January 2011
4 posts
December 2010
1 post
November 2010
6 posts
Help!
I really wanna get away from post grad school’s harshness. I’m in the moment in life when I wanna disappear and escape.. just for a short time, not forever.
I was going to Skype you but then I decided I should be productive.
– RGH, 4 hours ago via text.